Rob Nelson, MS     Certified EFT Practitioner
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Couples Sessions

Endless arguments, fighting and bickering.  Feeling misunderstood and unappreciated.  Blaming, attacking and defensiveness.  Feeling lonely within the relationship.  Feeling unsafe, insecure or hopeless.  Sex isn’t good anymore or just isn’t happening.   One or both of you seem checked out, just going through the motions with one foot out the door. Does any of this sound familiar? 

Should we split up? Or try to work things out? Breaking up may seem like the easy way out, but it's often messy, expensive and incredibly painful.  Investing in your relationship may be a better solution.  And this is especially true when you have kids together—you'll be tied to your ex-partner for years anyway.

Traditional couples counseling can be daunting. It takes a lot of time, money and commitment and may not even help. It's generally based on learning more effective communication skills, along with airing grievances in a safe space, so that each partner feels heard and understood and compromises can be worked out.  This is great, as far as it goes. But with EFT we can do more. And results are immediate.

Couples sessions with EFT work in a whole new way.  Instead of merely understanding each others issues, the issues themselves are discharged through tapping.  Living together becomes so much easier when our emotional triggers are simply eliminated. 

EFT cuts right to the heart of relationship problems, without the need for extensive analysis and insight.  We start right away with your toughest problems.  As negative emotions are cleared away, new space opens for intimacy.  This doesn’t take months.  It begins right away.

This is profound and exciting work!  Often partners unconsciously use each other to try and work out unfinished business from the past.  Releasing this old emotional baggage transforms anger, hurt and resentment towards your partner into understanding and compassion.  It’s really a beautiful process.

Some couples are burdened with intense feelings of anger, hurt, jealousy or guilt. And one or both partners may feel betrayed, as in the case of infidelity.  In these situations tapping becomes relationship CPR and EFT offers a way to rapidly wipe the slate clean emotionally, and start over at a higher level.

Is it possible to save a relationship if only one partner wants to work on it?  Sometimes.  Building up your own emotional well being and de-triggering yourself is always worthwhile, and may be enough.  EFT can also be used for “surrogate tapping” for your partner.  I’ve seen surprising results from this!

Sessions with Rob:
Couples are welcome to come on a session-by-session basis.  Try it out and discover how good you can feel after just one time!  I also offer a six session Radical Renovation Package for those wanting to really transform their marriage or partnership.

707-280-8134